Fully invest in your hobbies sis!
Yes the little ones! and nobody said you gotta be good at it lol Buy the kindle, take the spinning class or choose every color yarn> You and your hobbies deserve the deluxe package.
Say NO
No is a complete sentence!
Check Your space!
Sometimes changing your surrounding i.e dat man, friends and family give you the space to be the real you. Most of us suppress our charismatic personalities and forward ways to make others comfortable. Holding on to certain people gives us not only headache and heartache, but also anxiety and an unnecessary coochie droughts.
Book the Trip
Stop saying "I need a vacation".
You don't need a reason, You need a destination!
Curate The Mood
Build the playlist. Use the nice cocktail glasses. Light the candle and fix the girl dinner!
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Stop saving the good stuff for a special occasion. Baby you are the special occasion!
Make your space comfortable
Outside cost too much so make your space somewhere you don't want to leave. Going on vacation shouldn't be the only time you experience comfort and luxury. Now some of us don't want to spend hundreds of dollars on décor, but there are budget friendly ways to make your living space comfortable. Making your space beautiful and comfortable is a sure way to make you wanna stay in and out the way.
Live in the Moment
We are living in a society that is flooded with cameras for all the wrong reasons. I'm not saying don't catch the moments, but I am saying to make the memories authentic and worth remembering.
5 Things Worth the Money
Think about all the things that prevent you from being the softest version of yourself and figure out a way to have someone else do it. A chef? A house cleaner? A laundry service? Multitasking all day will have you in survival mode instead of your Soft Girl Era.
Put something down sweetness.
It's the Food...
I NEVER felt Jodi's momma so much! A garden... I need dat! They're killing us slowly, so making changes (even small ones) to your eating habits can give you a few more summers!
PRAY
Pray and Let it go.
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God heard you. You can unclench now.
Use. YOUR. DAMN. LEAVE!
That job will still be there when you get back!
It's time for you to Dilly Dally. You earned it!
Leave a Tip
Put a little something in the tip jar!
